Camera Shy? I Got You.
You're not alone — and if anything, that’s so normal. Most of us aren’t used to being in front of a camera unless it’s for a blurry selfie or a group shot we immediately untag on social media. But that’s where I come in! My job is to make this experience fun, relaxed, and 100% you.
Here are some of my favorite tips to help you feel like your most confident self in front of the lens.
Tip 1: Everyone feels weird at first
Feeling nervous? Totally valid. For a lot of us, the word "photoshoot" brings flashbacks of stiff school portraits, itchy outfits, and forced smiles. However, this is real life, real moments, and I’m not here to make you pose like a mannequin; I’m here to capture you, exactly as you are. I always spend a little time chatting before we even start shooting, just to ease in and let things flow naturally.
Tip 2: Just be you (seriously)
You don’t need to “perform” or be anything you’re not. Laugh if you feel like it. Take a deep breath. Talk, move, be silly… Whatever comes naturally! Most of the time, my favourite shots are the ones where you forget I’m even there. And don’t worry, I’ll guide you with prompts that feel more like conversation than posing. Think of it like hanging out, with a camera quietly tagging along.
Tip 3: Move! Don’t pose
Stillness can make things feel stiff and awkward fast. That’s why I’ll always encourage a little movement—walk, laugh, hug, twirl, tuck your hair, grab your partner’s hand. Small movements lead to those natural, effortless moments that feel like you weren’t even trying. Because that’s the point, you don’t have to.
Tip 4: PDA? Totally your call
If you’re doing a couples session, know this: not everyone loves being super touchy in front of the camera and that’s okay. If PDA isn’t your thing, just let me know. We’ll focus on connection in a way that feels natural to you, whether that’s holding hands, dancing a little, or simply sharing a look that says it all. No pressure, ever.
Tip 5: Confidence? You don’t have to be born with it
I wasn’t always confident either. But over time, I realized that showing up as your true self, even when you’re unsure, is what really shines. If you have to fake a little confidence at first, that’s totally okay. It usually turns into the real thing pretty quickly once you realize—“hey, this is actually kinda fun.”
Tip 6: Make it an experience
Plan something fun after your session. Dinner, a beach walk, movie night, or anything that makes the day feel special. That way, when you look back at your photos, they’re tied to a memory that goes beyond just standing in front of a camera. It becomes a full experience, not just a shoot.